In random order
The list is a rough sketch that describes the man i would care to grow old with.
I have never imagined i could end up making a list of things i need in a man, although i have tried several times to do so, but my trials were all in vain.
Suddenly things have become clear to me... maybe because i was that close to that example of a man!
The list may seem too perfected; the list may contain many things i do not possess myself.
And because it is simply insane to wish for things you know you are not worthy of, i doubtlessly am working on BEING that person, for when he comes i will know that i am deserving of him.
The list is my guide... so i guess i will need my friends to tell me what are the things that i already possess from all the below. :)
o Funny
o Kind
o Patient
o Beautiful in my eyes
o Generous with his smiles
o With at least average intelligence or more
o Excited about life with a wide range of interests
o Ambitious
o Good at one thing- be it talent or career
o Willing to trust me and let me in before i trust him
o Able to talk me through things, take my hand and lead me gently (leader, provider and supporter)
o Able to give me advice when I need it, and listen when all I need is to be heard
o Supportive and encouraging
o Offers me the sense of security and completeness I need
o Brings out the best in me through clear communication and positive motivation
o Doesn’t care about cultural stereotypes or what people think
o Isn’t afraid to get a little crazy every now and then
o Generous.
o Dependable
o Does not have a bad temper and isn’t insecure about his manhood in such a way that he needs to constantly prove it
o Is okay asking me for help and lending me a hand when i need it
o It wud be nice if he has a good successful career- but isn’t essential
o Socially extroverted
o Can just fill a whole room with talk and laughter
o Doesn’t feel awkward or weirded out easily
o Feels comfortable expressing love and affection to me in front of family and friends without being too shy and conservative about it.
o It wud b nice if he’s a bit built...
To be continued…
1 comment:
at last !
am glad .. no actually am happy that you wrote down the list.. cause it worked like magic for me ya Ronz..
as you said .. to have what you want you gotta be ready for it when it comes along :)
o Funny
o Kind
o Beautiful
o Generous with ur smiles
o With at least average intelligence or more
o Excited about life with a wide range of interests
o Good at one thing- be it talent
o Supportive and encouraging
o Doesn’t care about cultural stereotypes or what people think
o Isn’t afraid to get a little crazy every now and then
these are the things in you babe and more .. am copying from ur list only ;)
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