Wednesday, December 2, 2009

Withdrawal

It happens to be that, the more you are seen and heard from, the more your value degrades.

You become a habit.

Subtly, without your knowing why, people respect you less and less.

At the right moment you must learn to withdraw yourself, before they unconsciously push you away...

4 comments:

وشوشات said...

Is that applicable to friends as well? real friends? Don't think so!

Rana Eldars said...

well applicable or not thats a very relative matter... dont you think so?

وشوشات said...

مش عارفة يا رنا و الله.. انا بقالي كام يوم بافكر في حكاية الصداقة و حسة بلخبطة. ازاي الصداقة تكون صداقة بالورقة و القلم؟ إزاي أفضل أحسب تصرفاتي كويس قبل ما اتصرف عشان صديقي / صديقتي ما تفهمنيش غلط، أو عشان ما تفقش أو عشان أتجنب غضبها؟ إزاي أبقى باسمي فلان صديقي أو فلانة صديقتي و انا لا أأمن رد فعله أو فعلها تجاه تصرف إتصرفته بعفوية أو كلمة طلعت مني ما أقصدش منها أي إساءة؟ فين الصداقة هنا و ايه معناها؟؟

Mohammad said...

But withdrawing might break something in you. Wouldn't it be better to take them as a habit as well? Wouldn't it be better not to start putting hypothesis and suffer whatever consequences there is? If it's over it's over, but if it isn't it's something too precious to let it go.